서양
사람들이
생각하는
노년의
인생 22가지
즐겨
쓰는
시기이다.
돈을
축적(蓄積)하거나
신규
투자(投資)하는
시기가 절대로? 아니다.
자식들에게
휘둘리지
말고
평화롭고
조용한
삶을
찾아라.
****
It's time
to use the money you saved up.
Use it and enjoy it.
Don't
just keep it for those
who may
have no notion of the sacrifices
you made to get it.
Remember
there is nothing more dangerous
than a son or
daughter-in-law
with big
ideas for your hard earned capital.
Warning:
This is also a bad time
for an investment,
even if
it seems wonderful or fool-proof.
They only
bring problems and worries
and this
is a time for you to enjoy
some peace and quiet.
그들의
문제이다.
부모가
개의치
마라.
지금까지
키우고
공부시킨
것만으로도
충분하다.
****
Stop
worrying about the financial situation
of your children and
grandchildren,
and don't
feel bad spending your money
on yourself.
You've
taken care of them for many years,
and
you've taught them what you could.
You gave
them an education, food, shelter
and support.
The
responsibility is now theirs
to earn their own money.
건강이
최고다.
건강하게
사는게
점점
어려워지는
나이니
건강을?? 지키는
걸
최우선으로
하라.
****
Keep a
healthy life, without great physical effort.
Do
moderate exercise (like walking every day),
eat well and get your
sleep.
It's easy
to become sick, and it gets harder
to remain healthy.
That is
why you need to keep yourself
in good shape
and be
aware of your medical
and physical needs.
Keep in
touch with your doctor,
get tested even when
you're feeling well.
Stay
informed.
언제나
최상(最上)의
가장
아름다운
고급품을
사라.
****
Always
buy the best, most beautiful items
for your significant
other.
The key
goal is to enjoy your money
with your partner.
one day
one of you will miss the other,
and the
money will not provide
any comfort then,
enjoy it
together.
과거의
나쁜
기억은
잊고
좋은
일만을
생각하라.
현재가
중요하다.
****
Don't
stress over the little things.
You've
already overcome so much in your life.
You have
good memories and bad ones,
but the
important thing is the present.
Don't let
the past drag you down and don't let
the future frighten
you.
Feel good
in the now.
Small
issues will soon be forgotten.
사랑으로
넘치는
생활을
하라. 반려자,
인생,
가족,
이웃들....
****
Regardless
of age, always keep love alive.
Love your
partner, love life, love your family,
love your neighbor
and
remember:
"A man is
not old as long as he has intelligence
and
affection."
잘
하고
자신만만하게,
당당하게
살라.
몸과
마음을
잘
가꾸는데
신경써라.
****
Be proud,
both inside and out.
Don't
stop going to your hair salon or barber,
do your nails,
go to the
dermatologist and the dentist,
keep your perfumes
and creams well stocked.
When you
are well-maintained on the outside,
it seeps
in, making you feel proud and
strong.
따르려하지
말고 자신의
나이에
걸
맞는
Fashion을
추구하라.
****
Don't
lose sight of fashion trends
for your age,
but keep your
own sense of
style.
There's
nothing worse than
an older person
trying to
wear the current fashion
among youngsters.
You've
developed your own sense
of what looks
good on
you - keep it
and be
proud of it.
It's part of who you are.
뒤지지
마라.
이메일이나
SNS를
멀리
하지
말고
항상
세상뉴스를
듣고,
보고
얘기하라.
****
ALWAYS
stay up-to-date.
Read
newspapers, watch the news.
Go online and read what people are saying.
Make sure
you have an active email account
and try
to use some
of those social networks.
You'll be
surprised which
old friends you'll meet.
Keeping
in touch with what is going
on and with the people
you know
is important at any age?
존중하라.
조언하되
비평하지는 말라.
미래를
열
사람은
젊은이들이다.
****
Respect
the younger generation
and their opinions.
They may
not have the same ideals as you,
but they are the
future,
and will
take the world in their direction.
Give
advice, not criticism,
and try
to remind them of yesterday's
wisdom that
still applies
today?
11.
“옛날
그
시절에”라는
과거적인
표현을
절대
사용하지
마라.
당신도
이
시대를
사는
사람이다.
****
Never use
the phrase: "In my time".
Your time
is now. As long as you're alive,
you are part of this
time.
You may
have been younger,
but you are still you now,
having
fun and enjoying life.
명랑한
사람들과
어울려라.
쓰고
힘든
날들을
얘기하는
사람들과
어울리기에는?
인생은
너무
짧다.
****
Some
people embrace their
golden years,
while others become bitter and surly.
Life is
too short to waste your days
on the latter.
Spend
your time with positive,
cheerful people,
it'll rub
off on you and your days
will seem that much better.
Spending
your time with bitter people
will make you older
and harder to be
around.
13.
가족들과
자주
어울려
살되
혼자
살
재력이
있다면
자손들과
함께
살려는
유혹에
빠지지 말라.
****
Do not
surrender to the temptation
of living with your children
or grandchildren
(if you
have a financial choice, that is).
Sure,
being surrounded by family sounds great,
but we all
need our
privacy.
They need
theirs and you need yours.
If you've
lost your partner
(our deepest condolences),
then find
a person to move
in with you and help out.
Even
then, do so only if you feel
you really need the help
or do not
want to live alone.
14.
자신의
취미를
살려서
활용하라.
취미가
없다면
더
늦기
전에
새로운
취미를
만들어라.
봉사활동을
하더라도...
****
Don't
abandon your hobbies.
If you
don't have any, make new ones.
You can travel, hike, cook, read, dance.
You can
adopt a cat or a dog,
grow a garden,
play cards, checkers, chess, dominoes,
golf.
You can
paint,
volunteer at an NGO
or just collect certain items.
Find
something you like and spend
some real time having fun with
it.
15.
모임,
회식,
세례식,
결혼식
초대에
적극
참여하라.
그렇다고
초대를
못
받는다고
화내지
말라.
중요한
건
집
밖을
나서서
세상살이를
몸으로
접하는
것이다.
****
Even if
you don't feel like it,
try to accept invitations.
Baptisms,
graduations, birthdays,
weddings, conferences.
Try to
go. Get out of the house,
meet people you haven't seen in a while,
experience
something new
(or something old).
But don't
get upset
when you're not invited.
Some
events are limited by resources,
and not everyone can be
hosted.
The
important thing is to leave the house
from time to time.
Go to
museums, go walk through a field.
Get out
there.
16.
말은
적게
하고,
남의
말을 잘
경청하는
사람이
되라.
듣지
않고
자기
얘기만
떠들어
대면
주위
사람들이
떠난다.
불평,
불만,
비판의
말이
아니라
남이
듣기
좋은
대화의? 소재를
찾아라.
****
Be a
conversationalist.
Talk less and listen more.
Some
people go on and on about the past,
not
caring if their listeners are
really interested.
That's a
great way of reducing
their desire to speak with you.
Listen
first and answer questions,
but don't
go off into long stories
unless asked to.
Speak in
courteous tones
and try not to complain
or
criticize too much unless
you really need to.
Try to
accept situations as they are.
Everyone
is going through the same things,
and
people have a low tolerance
for hearing complaints.
Always
find some good things to say as
well.
17.
노쇠(老衰)에
따르는
불편함과
고통을
고통으로? 생각지
말고
당연한
것으로
자연스럽게
수용하라.
늙는
건
당신
잘못이
아니라
세월
탓이다.
****
Pain and
discomfort go hand in hand with
getting older.
Try not
to dwell on them
but
accept them as a part of the cycle
of life we're all
going
through.
Try to
minimize them in your mind.
They are
not who you are,
they are something that life
added to you.
If they
become your entire focus,
you lose
sight of the person you used to be.
18.
타인의
잘못에는
용서(容恕)하고,
?자신의
실수에는
사과(謝過)하라.
남의
옳고
그름을
따지면
당신의
마음이 불편해진다.
****
If you've
been offended by someone
- forgive them. If you've
offended someone -
apologize.
Don't
drag around resentment with you.
It only
serves to make you sad and bitter.
It
doesn't matter who was right.
Someone
once said:
"Holding a grudge is like taking poison
and
expecting the other person to die."
Don't
take that poison. Forgive,
forget and move on with your
life.
남에게
?강요(强要)하지
마라.
남에게
설교하거나
선교하려
하지
말고,
자신의
신념에
따라
살면서
모범을
보여라.
****
If you
have a strong belief, savor it.
But don't
waste your time trying
to convince others.
They will
make their own choices no matter
what you tell them,
and it
will only bring you frustration.
Live your
faith and set an example.
Live true
to your beliefs and let
that memory sway them.
많이
웃어라.
모든
것에
웃어라.
살면서
유머(감각)를
잃지
말라.
****
Laugh.
Laugh A
LOT.
Laugh at
everything.
Remember,
you are one of the lucky ones.
You
managed to have a life, a long one.
Many
never get to this age,
never get to experience a full life.
But you
did.
So what's
not to laugh about?
Find the humor in your situation.
나를
어떻거
생각할? 것인지에
신경
쓰지
마라.
휴식하며
평화롭고
행복한
시간을
가질
때이다.
****
Take no
notice of what
others say about you
and even
less notice of
what they might be thinking.
They'll
do it anyway,
and you
should have pride in yourself
and what you've achieved.
Let them
talk and don't worry.
They have
no idea about your history,
your
memories and the life you've lived so far.
There's
still much to be written,
so get busy writing
and don't
waste time thinking
about what others might think.
Now is
the time to be at rest,
at peace and as happy.
그리고,
마지막으로...
나쁜
포도주를
마시기에는
인생은
너무나
짧다.
즐겨라.....
소중한
인생을.
AND
REMEMBER:
"Life is
too short to drink bad wine."
[출처] http://m.blog.naver.com/moonsoo47/220797002283
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